Parenting a child with special needs can be both rewarding and challenging. It can also feel isolating. A recent piece on the Motherly blog spotlights a mom’s experience on her daughter’s first day of school and how very different it was from other children and their parents. She also describes feeling alone because she had no other moms at the school who could relate to her as the parent of a child with special needs.
While it’s natural to feel this way, it's also important to remember that you are not alone on this journey as the parent of a child with special needs. Numerous community resources are available to support you and your family. In this article, I’ll highlight some of those resources so you can keep them at the top of your mind. These include local groups, professionals, government programs, advocacy organizations, and a network of supportive confidants. And, of course, you! You may sometimes forget, but supporting and sustaining your own well-being is vital.
So, let’s dive in. We’ll start with local and online support networks.
Local and Online Support Networks
As the author in the Motherly piece brought forward, one of the most valuable resources for parents of children with special needs is connecting with other parents who understand your experiences. Local support groups can offer a safe and welcoming environment to share feelings, learn from others, and receive encouragement. These groups can be found through schools, hospitals, or online directories.
The Internet offers a wealth of information and support for parents of children with special needs, extending beyond your locality. Online communities and forums provide a strong sense of connection and understanding. Some popular resources include:
The National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI): NAMI provides information and support for individuals with mental health conditions, including children.
Autism Speaks: Autism Speaks is a leading autism advocacy organization that provides resources and support for families.
Children's Health Defense: This organization provides information and advocacy on childhood health and well-being.
Facebook and similar sites. While social media can sometimes be unhealthy, especially when comparison creep beckons, specific sites can be helpful. A search on Facebook, for example, brings up dozens of support groups for parents of children with special needs locally and globally.
Professional Support Services
It seems obvious, but it is worth the reminder that professionals who provide medical and therapeutic services are crucial members of your support team. They may include:
Pediatricians: Having a pediatrician you trust and who truly understands your child is critical. A pediatrician specializing in developmental or physical disabilities can provide medical care and referrals to other specialists.
Therapists: Occupational, physical, and speech-language therapists can address specific needs and help children develop essential skills.
Behavioral therapists: Applied behavior analysis (ABA) can be valuable for children with autism spectrum disorders and other developmental disabilities.
Government Programs and Benefits
Government programs and benefits can provide financial assistance and support services for families of children with special needs. Some examples include:
Social Security Disability Insurance (SSDI): SSDI can provide monthly financial benefits for children who meet specific criteria.
Supplemental Security Income (SSI): SSI provides monthly financial benefits to low-income individuals with disabilities, including children.
Medicaid: Medicaid is a government-funded health insurance program that can help cover medical expenses for children with disabilities.
Early Intervention Services: These services support infants and toddlers with developmental delays, helping them reach their full potential.
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A Network of Caring People
Creating a solid support network can be invaluable for parents of children with special needs. Consider reaching out to:
Family and friends: Share your experiences and ask for support when needed.
Neighbors: Building relationships with neighbors can provide practical help and emotional support. Also, consider contacting other parents at your child’s school who receive IEP support.
Colleagues: If you work, and if it’s appropriate in your company’s culture, consider talking to your colleagues about your situation. They may be able to offer understanding and support, as well as cover your duties when you need time off.
Faith-based communities: Many faith-based organizations offer support groups and resources for families. They may also provide financial or volunteer support to local organizations that serve individuals with special needs.
Don't Forget the Person Who Needs Support the Most: You!
It may be challenging to find the time, and you may even feel like it’s impossible. But know that taking care of yourself is essential when parenting a child with special needs. Without self-care, you can’t show up to be the parent your child needs you to be. You also can’t push yourself so much that you cannot function. So remember to:
Prioritize your well-being: Make time for activities that you enjoy and that help you relax.
Seek professional help: Consider talking to a therapist or counselor if you feel overwhelmed. Remember, there are professionals who understand and are ready to support you.
Connect with other parents: Sharing experiences can provide a sense of community and understanding.
Take breaks: Be bold, ask for help, and take breaks when needed.
Parenting a child with special needs can be challenging, but it can also be gratifying. By exploring these resources and seeking support from your community, you can find the help and guidance you need to navigate the challenges and joys of parenting a child with special needs. Remember, you are not alone; many people care about you and your family.
How I Support You on Our Entire Journey
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